MISUNDERSTANDING
Misunderstandings are a difficult thing.
What makes them difficult are a lack of communication. If there are questions or concerns or perhaps statements or behaviors that someone says or does that doesn't sit will with you...say something.
Communication between friends and those friends include husband's, wives, siblings, even our children or friends.
Now, let me clarify...as parents we are not "friends" with our children...until they reach adulthood; per se', but good communication is still vital.
When someone does or says something that really bothers you...please with love and tenderness, say something , clear the air.
Why is this so important, the enemy is still lurking around seeking who he can devour...remember he is always looking to steal, kill and destroy, doesn't matter who...but be wise in knowing it will first and foremost always be a Christian.
He wants to bring strife into a Christian relationship to discredit the name of God. When people are at odds he rejoices in their pain and he tries to drive a wedge even further between them and then will attempt to get them to begin to question their faith and trust in God.
Don't fall for it...it's a set up from the very beginning.
Remember to hold your peace when a difficult conversation needs to be had...all things in perfect timing and never continue when the conversation takes a turn...take a step back...take a break (pause the conversation)...until the mind and heart have been cleared and calm.
Communication is necessary but there are was to communicate...don't allow the enemy to cause your communication to turn the opposite of what your intentions are.....misunderstandings are easily avoidable...just by paying attention to the atmosphere.
Let God always lead a conversation.
In Jesus name
Blessings
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